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- As a word, love can be found worldwide and is often used to describe
compassion and/or emotional attachment. Sometimes love songs do not
accurately describe love, but rather, the absence of love, hence the sad
tone of some romantic songs.
- Love genuinely. Do not compare your feelings now to what your feelings were when you were with another mate.
- Do things that make the other person feel good and happy, but don't smother them with gifts and attention.
- People in love are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavor to
meet them even when they don't feel like doing it. People who are truly
in love do not insist that their way is best and demand that their mates
give in to them.
- Refrain from rehearsing your good traits just to show off. Bragging in a relationship often is really defensiveness.
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- Men and women may be equal in value but different by nature. People
who truly are in love give their mates "space" to develop their
potential and find their fulfillment in life.
- Be considerate of each other's feelings and courteous in your actions toward one another. Sadly, sarcasm
is a way of life for some couples and friends. When people ridicule
each other, belittle each other and trade jibes with a fury, it leaves
wounds that will someday become festering sores.
- Look out for your mate's best interests as much as your own.
- Control your anger
when the someone displeases you. We are all human, and all humans feel
anger periodically, but we only express our anger in destructive ways
when we are counting on someone else to meet our needs.
- Never take pleasure in the disappointments or failures of others.
People are in greatest need of support and compassion at such times in
life.
- Treat others with absolute trust. Some lovers torment themselves with groundless suspicions. If you look for trouble, you will find it every time.
- Always look forward to your relationships with other people growing more meaningful and precious over time. Have hope,
which is an attitude that happily anticipates the good. It isn't being
blind and denying that there are problems, but it does look beyond the
problems. People who truly love others do not allow their problems to
rob them of their happiness.
- Remember there is no failure in love, because once you tell somebody
that you love them, then you have already succeeded in love.